I don’t like hearing about the support groups for individuals who have been in a relationship with people who experience borderline personality disorder. I do not want to deny anyone support and I will never say that being with a particular disorder/type of person isn’t exhausting or causes it’s damage. There just seems to be unequal emphasis.
I feel like people and myself are taught how to survive ME. What about the people I need to survive? Everything is generally framed in how I can communicate, behave and think better but what about those who hurt me?
I always survived on my own though so I guess it’s no loss not having a survivor group for those who have borderline personality and have experienced various forms of abuse.